For the majority of people who love pet companions, it is only a dream to have that special bond, that soul connection with their pet. I have been fortunate to have three such bonds in my lifetime. Three which I am aware of. For, when I was a young child, my family had the "family dog." What I mean is, even though I loved animals at a very young age, I really did not grasp all that they are, all that they are here to teach us. The respect for the entirety of the animal has grown over the years.
This short blog is dedicated the life of one such animal, Morgan. To call her an animal is a grave understatement as she has been so much more to me, my husband, Lola (her Boston Terrier sister) and our new dog, Luna. Morgan came into our lives in less than opportune circumstances approximately ten years ago. We were losing our Golden Retriever, Cinnibar, at the time. In fact, Cinnibar passed almost five weeks after we adopted Morgan from a family who did not love and respect her. We had the opportunity to adopt her from this family two years prior, but they changed their minds and told us they were going to "try" to love her once again. I will never understand why her former family were clueless to the gem they had under their noses. However, the adage, "their loss is our gain" comes to mind, as despite Morgan's health issues over the years, she has been our brown angel. Even though I had a heavy heart from the passing of my Cinnibar, I began to open my heart to Morgan and she to me. She was very respectful of Cinnibar and took the background until Cinnibar passed. We picked Morgan up on a very cold day in January, with Cinnibar in the car, I envisioned a Vulcan mind meld of some sort transpired amongst the two of them, as they seemed to have an understanding of each other. After Cinnibar's passing, Morgan had our full attention and she began to slowly accept our love and trust. It was not an easy road, as she had many issues due to the neglect which she suffered. We also started feeding her better food and exercising her consistently. We realized what a true athlete she was. She could run as fast as a greyhound, swim like an Olympic swimmer, all which came at a price, as we found out she had some back issues which were activated with all the exercise which needed immediate attention. We brought her to our vet, who luckily is well versed in animal acupuncture and chiropractic. We began to see a difference with the treatments over the years and truelly believe that it is due to this care and the love we have given her, she was able to live to almost fifteen years old. An astounding feat for a lab. However, the past three years she has not been able to partake in all that she loves as just like a light switch approximately three years ago, Morgan could no longer ride in cars, meaning, no park, no adventures with us. We have watched her decline over this time period and it has been very tortuous. We were waiting for a sign, a sign to tell us that it was time for her to go. I have been working with an animal communicator to help me intuit this sign. However, with Morgan, her love of us and maybe obligation, is blocking this signal. Cinnibar stopped eating, this was our sign to release her, however, we realize that this would never happen with our Mooey (Morgan) as her love of food is as strong as her love for life! Her friend, Lola Getz, our Boston, will be very sore for some time as well. We got Lola when she was eight weeks old and she is now ten years old. She formed an instant bond with Morgan. Morgan was Lola's mom/sister/best friend. I believe that Lola has been slowly adjusting to the loss of Morgan as we all have over the course of the three years. I believed that I was better prepared than I am, because, I have been crying off and on for a day and a half. I know she is going to a better place, however, it does not make the loss of her brilliant and loving soul any easier to know that. For she has forever changed my life for the better. She has made me more patient, not an easy feat, more loving, more understanding, and for that, I will always love her and be grateful for her. In parting, I just wanted to urge all of you pet partners to kiss and hug your pet as you would your child, because they are very similar to children in many ways. They are here to love us, to challenge us, to change us!



